FAITH MATTERS MORE !

FAITH is what keeps us going! FAITH is the base of a Positive outlook ! The word FAITH need not necessarily relate to any so called religious concept. It is the basic confidence one has on one's own self, - a little more of the word 'self-confidence', I would say ! If one has got that confidence, the FAITH which he has, would definitely  lead him to the right path always !

FAITH LEADS TO LIGHT! The word "LIGHT" here does not men light in its literary sense! It means 'ENLIGHTENMENT', What does "Enlightenment" means? It means "Self-
Realization" which in its real sense,to realize what the 'SELF' is. One may say that the general EGO is "Self". This may be correct in the first step of the process of getting into the search of 'Self'. Ultimately 'Self' might prove something else, the quantum of which would be different for different persons. One has to experience realizing this, which can not be explained in words! But if one's FAITH is strong, it will lead him to LIGHT ultimately! These lines of meanings are given in the broader sense of the word. If we take it in the lighter sense also, it will be correct. If we apply the concept "Faith leads to Light", in the lighter sense of our day-to-day activities also, it will mean a lot to us. Unless one is confident of what he has in mind, he will not reach his goal. When one fees he is in dark, in difficulties, his Faith or his Confidence leads him to light!

I am reminded of what my dad used to advice always: 'Surrender all your thoughts, or even worries you have, to your ultimate Faith. Keep confidence and be care-free!  You will definitely see wonders happening! But one thing - once given them off, never take back the worries back on your shoulders, which would not do anything better for you! Take this as it comes and enjoy your present minute".  These words have been leading me till date!

"YOU GET WHAT YOU DESERVE! " - MOTHER

"You get what you deserve"

Human wants are unlimited ! In this material world, we desire for humpteen things! Do we get what all we want, and more to say, do we get it instantaneously-at that particular moment itself when we want it? No! It is very rare to get like that!

Desire for anything, but do not be in a haste to get it. Wait for the correct moment, till you get it and enjoy it at the time you get it. Not only enjoying it, but see if what you get be of any use to others! That is most important!

To aspire for any achievement-any big thing in life is not wrong, but to surrender it the moment you get it to the PROVIDER with full heart is a Great thing! What you get may not be some times what you wanted; but if you have the capacity to accept it with full heart, it will really make you live in Peace !

What all you get is not provided to you because you wanted it, but because it is felt that you DESERVED it.

"YOU GET WHAT YOU DESERVE"

It does not mean that you should boast yourself or feel proud that you have deserved that high a prize! To accept it without any ego and to live with it like that, is what is required of you ! To do your best to others with what you get is what is required of you !

A SMILE MAKES THE OTHER SMILE, SO SMILE !

Just a SMILE brings life to the whole atmosphere and that is the magic of SMILE ! It really creates wonders ! A face loses its charm without a SMILE in it !

Imagine that you are going to attend an interview. Your entering the interview hall with a smiling face would generate positive feeling all over and within yourself also, which would help you handle the situation nicely and come out successfully with the interview !

Imagine that you are going to meet a client to sell a product of your Company . Your entering the place with a smiling face would defenitely ease the client's moods which would in turn make your job easy to get the business ! SMILE COSTS NOTHING !

We have to learn this habit from Children ! They always have a smiling face only. When you see the smiling face of a child, you forget all your worries and you also smile !

We are born in this world, not for worrying ourselves on anything, thereby making others also worry ! Each one is born in this world with a mission , with a purpose to fulfill.. But every one of us spend at least half of our life time without finding out the purpose. We have to search for the purpose which is not anywhere outside, but lies within ourselves. Let us search for that with a SMILE, easen our job and come out successfully !

G. N. Balasubramaniam - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

G. N. Balasubramaniam - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

....at first sight !....

There have been times when I used to wonder why I am being lovable and kind towards people whom I come across ! But I used to immediately feel that there are reasons for everything, only thing is we do not understand the reasons! Well, Reasons are not the ones I should do a research on!

I think of those pleasing moments when people found pleasure in sharing their thoughts with me or spend a little of their precious time with me. When I think of that all my pains fly off! I am relieved of all my troubles when I remember those memorable lovely faces! I feel so happy over the fact that God has made me an instrument in bringing a pleasurable moment in somebody's life. I can't find out the reason why I was chosen for that, but I keep thanking God for that. It is not with everybody one can share their feelings.
But when anybody does that to a person who is entirely new to him......! Thats where GOD makes his presence felt, I feel!

I recollect so many of such instances I came across in my life! Almost all of them were auto drivers who still continue their best of friendship with me! In the first meet itself, after pouring out himself - after sharing all his goods and bads in his life-he used to say 'Sir , I dont know why I was telling all my personal feelings and problems to you. I found such a good friend in you and probably thats the reason."

For Thyagaraju, whom I met last Monday, "I don't know what prompted me to share with you all my feelings, most of them so personal to me; but sir, one thing is sure, that I can cherish this for the rest of my life, weather I would meet you again or not."

For Murugesh, "Sir, I am feeling so proud of the fact that I happened to meet you and find you such a good friend in you, in your childish nature, in your pure love and affection and what not. I find my own father in you, whom I lost so many years back. Such caring words like that of my mother come from you! Cant forget you in my lifetime!"

And for Palani,who is with me since more than three years, its much more and unexplainable!

And, in all of them, I find a Son for me! I find real happiness when I spend some time with them. But How and Why, I used to ask myself. And I used to get the reply from my mind: There is much more and more than money and material in life; and that is real love and affection; love without expecting anything in return! The moment we measure anybody's action with the yardstick of money, LOVE flies off from there!

But we have to accept the fact that it is a BLESSING that you are made to love others and that others do love you for what you are! It is a BLESSING and nothing other than BLESSING!